Sensual massage in Amsterdam for a couple on their first evening

Where it comes from

Oil work given for pleasure rather than for repair is older than any of the named formats and belongs to no single school. What the modern version took from spa massage is the sequence, long strokes along the back and legs before anything else, and what it took from nowhere in particular is the pace. It reached outcall practice in northern European cities in the last two decades as hotel guests stopped wanting to go anywhere, which is exactly the instinct a couple has on the evening they finally get to shut a door.

The technique

Long connected strokes with the flat of the hand and the forearm, working from the back and the legs inward, with warm oil and no gel. Pressure is medium and constant rather than varied for effect. The therapist works around the body rather than section by section, so nothing announces where it is going next, and the tempo slows deliberately through the second half. With two therapists in the room the pair keep loosely to the same tempo, which is what makes both sessions end together. On a bed rather than a table, which suits a hotel room and suits a body that intends to stay lying down afterwards.

What to expect

She comes to the door in street clothes with one bag. The first few minutes go nowhere in particular: a lamp instead of the overhead light, the heating turned up, a short exchange in whichever language suits the room. Her own towels go over the bed. With one therapist the work starts on whichever of you agreed beforehand to go first, along the back and the length of the legs, long and even, with enough pressure to be felt and not so much that a tired body argues with it. Pressure is set in the opening minutes and then left alone. Somewhere in the second half the breathing changes and most guests stop tracking the clock. Her own limits are named at the start of the visit, in her own words, and they stand to the end of it. It ends when the booked time ends, without a bell, and the room stays quiet afterwards.

Who it suits

A first evening after a long gap. A partner who has been awake since four in the morning for a connection. Anyone who wants an hour that asks nothing of the room, the bathroom or the building. It suits a couple who want the evening to stay in one register rather than move through several. It is less interesting to guests who specifically want the weight and slide of a gel format, and those two are worth reading about on their own pages before choosing.

What it is good for

It is the least demanding thing you can book on a night when one of you has been in transit since morning. Nothing is laid out, nothing is rinsed, the room looks the same afterwards, and neither partner has to be in any particular state to enjoy it. For a couple who have not shared a bed in six weeks, it also does the job of getting the two of you into the same register without anyone having to propose anything.

At your address

Sensual massage for a couple in a hotel room or apartment in central Amsterdam, warm oil, sixty minutes to a whole night, outcall only, at the hour the later flight allows.

Length

Sixty minutes, ninety or two hours, and at each of them a second therapist doubles what the two of you would pay with one. Most reunion bookings in this format land on the middle length. A single guest, which is what the partner who lands first sometimes books for the afternoon, pays half the couple figure at any of those lengths. Ninety is the length that gives a reunion evening room to stop being polite.

Related techniques

Erotic Oil Massage · Body-to-Body Massage · Tantra Massage